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And of course, that leaks into their romantic relationships.By now, it's pretty common knowledge that if a guy calls his exes crazy, he's the one with the problem.When bae first met you, they loved EVERYTHING about you.Now, those same things–the sound of your laugh, your penchant for wearing Doc Martens, your love of bad reality TV–are a problem."Narcissists tend to hold some specific image of what they want their partner to be like and they don’t 'challenge you' to grow, they try to force your 'growth,'" Degges-White says.
You could have screenshots of what they said to you earlier and they'll still find a way to say that's not reality or what they meant.She adds that their ego is very fragile, so any perceived "attack" on their reputation makes them furious.For example, say you get into a small, calm argument while you're out at dinner.As if explosive fights weren't bad enough, narcissists also have a knack for convincing you that you're actually the drama queen who starts all the conflicts, all the time."Narcissists are manipulators who have no qualms about twisting a partner’s words or actions in a way that would make the partner feel guilty or remorseful about things they have no reason to feel bad about," Degges-White says.
"Narcissists don’t focus on growth in a relationship, because their own self-assessment confirms to them that they are already significantly evolved and accomplished," Degges-White says.