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I havent heard from him since, this was last saturday may 26, and i havent tried to contact him either, nothing, no emails, no text no calls, no drunk dialing or text terrorism as you say it jajaj, ive stayed calm and havent done anything. And today i am kind of down because we met on match.com, and today out of curiosity i saw that he was there and that he has been active for the last 24 hours, so it put me down a bit, i dont even know if that means anything or not. It's possible that he is being honest with you and that he does really value you and the time you spend together.
I asked him why he waited so long to tell me this, and why would he act and give me all these mixed signals that he actually did want to be in a relationship with me, i dont know if im crazy or not but if youre not serious about someone do you take a weekend together and go somewhere??So after he didnt say anything back, i was angry and frustated and i told him that i couldnt do this anymore, that i coulnt be with someone that not even after 4 months of being together doesnt know how he feels.So then we started talking and started telling all these things that i never expected really, that he didnt feel strongly enough about the relationship to move forward, that he didnt see a future with me, that he finds himself sometimes thinking do i really want to pursue this, do i really want to do this?The rule is: if one person wants a relationship and the other hasn’t decided what they want, there should be a time limit on how long you should be tied up in the dating zone.Because I know women and men are different when it comes to…well just about everything, I asked three guys how long it usually takes for them to decide if they want a commitment. They all agreed that if they are consistently (keyword: consistently), dating someone for about six to eight months, that next step should be coming soon. Every situation is different, but I’ve never dated someone consistently for a year and it ended in a relationship.
So last saturday i decided to tell him that i was starting to develop feelings for him, and the second i said that he pulled back and started acting all nervous and didnt say anything back.