Dating advice women their 20s
They’ll pressure you to just get a job, any job, so you can make some money.
They’ll pressure you to stay in that job you don’t like because it’s stable.
Don’t be afraid to keep trying things until you find something that really gels with you.
When people settle, they tend to fall into a rut that they can’t get out of.
You might have to try a few jobs you don’t like and it might be hard for a while, but never settle.
We only get one life, don’t spend it doing something you don’t like.
It was exhausting and incredibly unsatisfying to live my life for adulation from others.
When I joined the army, I began to dislike and chafe against authority.
Also known as a rite of passage before we urbanised a few thousand years ago. I grew about 20 years in maturity in the 6 years I spent there.
Your 20s is the time, because you aren’t tied down with a spouse and kids.
If you want to go heli skiing in Canada, go and do it! By the time I hit 30 I’d been to several countries overseas, served in the military, earned a bachelor’s and master’s degree, got a scuba diving licence, been bungee jumping out of a suspended cable car, surfed 15 foot waves, went snowboarding in Canada, trained with and been taught by Olympic judo champions, and that’s just what I can remember off the top of my head.
Rather than hating it and pitying yourself, recognise this is the crucible that will shape your future. If you can learn to be emotionally resilient, to make the best of a bad time and to not give up, you’ll have something that will serve you well your entire life – the ability to overcome hardship.
Besides all of that, you can’t taste just how sweet success really is when you’ve never gone through any pain.
Everyone grows up with a certain amount of conditioning from their parents, teachers and other authority figures.