Alpha female dating an alpha male
They may be laughing along, sharing the joke, but not necessarily holding court. Spend 10 minutes each night visualising yourself in a happy relationship with a man who supports you, doesn’t compete with you and allows you to be YOU.See yourself going through the course of your everyday life with a Beta Male by your side.A Beta Male is likely to provide long term security for a woman; he will allow the relationship to focus on her needs and is likely to be emotionally tuned-in to her ups and downs.The challenge is, in her natural behavioural style, the Alpha Female doesn’t always attract a Beta Male (in fact, she probably scares the pants off him, and not in a good way! The good news is that with a few behavioural tweaks, Alpha Females can start to connect with Beta Males. Create space and time in your life Alpha Females are inclined to fill their lives with personal and professional ‘busyness’ and tend to operate in a highly self-sufficient manner.
A Beta Male is more likely to take the supportive role with a woman, to allow her to lead, to shine, and to be herself in all her glory.Imagine placing a sign on your forehead that says ‘available’. They often prefer to keep any perceived ‘flaws’ or ‘weaknesses’ to themselves and sometimes find signs of vulnerability in others quite unattractive. When you enter a room it’s not hard to spot the Alphas – they are the men with the loudest voice, the most intense eye contact, the boldest dress style and often, the strongest scent (a throw-back to our animal ancestors). Scientists have found that women are most likely to be attracted to males with high testosterone levels (i.e. When you think about it, it makes sense from an evolutionary perspective, ovulation is the time when women’s brains and bodies are preparing to conceive. In order to change your behaviour, start with your mindset.Generally speaking, all men are attracted to a level of vulnerability in women. But if you look a little closer, you’ll start to notice the men just to the side of the dominant story-tellers. So keep an eye on your cycle and choose to spend ovulation time having a quite cocktail or coffee with a girlfriend, rather than hunting men. If you are an Alpha Female and you’d like to experiment with Beta Males, start with your imagination.Imagine yourself telling your friends about your great relationship. This is means I am opinionated, outspoken and overworked.
Some people may say they are too intimidated to date an alpha female. That isn't the type of person an alpha female is interested in anyway.